In response to what you said...
Hello rin po sa iyo. You know who you are. 'Kala mo ikaw lang pwede mag-post...Ako rin, nagpasyang mag-post...para mailabas ko naman ang side ko. Pareho naman tayong naniniwala na may dalawang side sa anumang kuwento, isyu, o usapin. (FYI: Siya nga pala, sa mga umaali-aligid at nag-aabang ng post ko tungkol sa iba pang usapin...hindi po ito 'yon. Hindi ito para sa inyo. Balik na lang po kayo sa ibang araw. Pasensya na, naging busy rin ako sa pag-aasikaso ng ibang mas importanteng bagay na may kinalaman sa buhay ko sa labas ng mundo ng blog.)I won't elaborate on the incident that led to this stupid misunderstanding in the first place and I hope and trust that you have the decency to do the same. Kasi kung magkuwento ako dito...haha...let's just say I can find it in my heart to refrain from making you look bad. Kung masyado pa ring mataray ang dating ko, pasensya na lang po kayo. As you can see, I'm pretty easygoing but when I get provoked, ingat na lang kasi lumalabas ang katarayan ko. Waray man gud ini.
Ito lang ang masasabi ko...even the closest or the best of friends have their boundaries. On the one hand, we have become close. May pinagsamahan na rin tayo. On the other hand, I barely know you and you barely know me, in so many respects. This makes it all the more important for you to be careful with your words. And if you cross the line, please take responsibility for your actions.
You admitted you were tactless. You were also bordering on being overfamiliar. And I have no patience with such behavior. Since I'm pretty damn frank and I do speak my mind, I will not hesitate to call your attention if you cross the line. You claim you're sensitive. Well, I'm also sensitive about certain issues (and you don't know me that well yet so you better watch your mouth if you want us to remain on good terms). Heck, everyone is sensitive in one way or another. This is why I believe it's really important for us to be careful with our words and expressions. If you don't know someone that well, be careful what you say--especially if it's a personal matter--because it might rub him or her the wrong way. And if you did offend someone, be it intentionally or unintentionally, take responsibility for your actions before harping on the damage done to your pride or ego. You can do that later, trust me.
N'ung una pinalampas ko na lang...Eh talaga naman, inulit mo pa kung kelan matino naman 'yung usapan natin. Di ka rin mapagsabihan ng maayos, noh? If what you say is offensive to me, I will tell you it's offensive. If what you say makes me uncomfortable, I will tell you it makes me uncomfortable. I won't sugarcoat my words just to protect or feed your ego. You deserved the response you got from me. Let me reiterate: You crossed the line. Well, instead of just apologizing upfront and dropping the subject, what did you do? You sounded like such a BRAT when you told me what I said put you in a "stormy" mood, yada yada yada.
Now you say you were just being honest. Fine. It doesn't change the fact that you overstepped your boundaries and pissed me off in the first place. Hmm..I was just being honest, too, when I told you that. If what I said challenged your position (and pricked your ego), well, that's beyond my control. If you reap the consequences of your actions, that's not my problem. I will not let you hear what you want to hear at the expense of my emotional well-being (and sanity). I appreciate your honesty in expressing your feelings pero sana ilagay mo rin naman sa lugar. As I said, don't blame me for your issues and hang-ups.
And now you tell me you weren't blaming me for the reactions elicited from your end, that you would never hold me responsible for what happened to you. Well, thanks for letting me know that. Believe me, it means a lot...considering that you didn't convey this well previously because you weren't too clear about where you were coming from. (Oops, did I just prick your ego again? Sorry po! Kainin mo ego mo.)
It was a stupid fight. Don't worry, I don't hate you at this point and for some reason, I don't think I could ever hate you ('wag lang sana lumaki ulo mo). May pinagsamahan rin naman tayo...sayang naman kung masira. I'm willing to make up if you're willing to make up. In the meantime, mananahimik na lang muna ako. If you can take me as I am, let me know. If you're just looking for someone who will let you hear what you want to hear, you're talking to the wrong person.
found herself @ 6:32 PM
13 Comments:
Ay kahit mataas, binasa ko talaga lahat. Seeker, I don't want to guess who you're reffering to but I think I know the person.
Hwag naman kayong mag-away jan. You're old enough to handle this situation. Ay napakasakit kuya Eddie, if he/she will read this, matutunaw talaga sya...kawawa naman.
O cge sister, peace na kayo ha...Good night.
hello Lady Di! Whatever it is that is bothering you now, I'm pretty much sure that you'll get over it and forgive the person who hurt you. I only hope that you two will soon patch things up. He seemed so sorry for what he has said and done. Hope you'll find it in your heart to forgive him. I guess he too has learned his lessons the hard way.
Hi,Ms.Soul_Seeker...,
Ooooppps,u-turn na kaya ako?Mukhang mainit ang ulo mo???
Cool,gurl...i have no idea..but...,believe ako s isang tao na kayang sabihin ang gusto in her own way....
Sana...,maayos din ang lahat....
PS.
Ang taray mo pala....
hahahaha!
ame.sweet
Ayyayyay! kalma lang sabi!
siya pa rin ba? hay naku peace na kayo!
Sis Di, hwag masyadong matapang ha, isipin mo baka naman baba yang tag board mo! cool ka lang dyan sis.
Ayo ayo diha!
Kalma ka lang, tuod uy isog bitaw ning mga waray ba kay ako parents waray man. Hope you two will patch things up. Sana magka peace na kayo..
Ayo ayo! mwaaaaah
Seeker, puede magbati na kayo, sayang naman pinagsamahan nyo sa blogging tapos nag-aaway kayong dalawa. Pinagdasal ko pa naman kayo na sana magkatuluyan...
I hope both of you will reconcile all of this misunderstanding.
Huwag na mag pride chicken. Lunukin nyo nalang.
Hi sis Di, ano yang pinagsasabi ni mareng raquel, ibig sabihin may misunderstanding kayo ni manoy? NO no no...di ako naniniwala hanggat di mo sasabihin sa akin kong si manoy ba talaga, feel ko kasi iba yong pren mo pa rin sa pinas dun ka medyo galit lol's. Sabihin mo sa akin kong si manoy tutuliin ko yon uli oramismo! yong itlog nalang itira para may ugay ugayon pa. hek hek hek
Hahaha, buang ka Mare.
Diri nalang ko mag tsismis oi, adrto unta ko sa imong tag board.
Gikan diay ko kang manoy, pagbalik na ko sa akong balay naa naman dayun koy message nimo. Pirmi jud ko nimo lumbaan oi.
Kumusta naman mo sa imong gipa-ibot diri sa imong posting. Kinsa mana sya oi, sultihi ko ba, nyahaha. Puede, amigo nalang mo oi.
O cge good night na ha. Muaaah!!!
Hahaha..sis Di, nakakatawa lang ko bwahahahaha...labad jud ka ha! mao jud si churchill nalang hahahha..dako kaayo akong ngisi dire, mabuang ko nimo!
oh! ang puso! hinay-hinay lang. hehe. ΓΌ
hi soul, it's really sad that people like the subject of post still exists. it's unfortunate that they think and act like that at your expense. you don't deserve someone like that. even if shit happens to good people, that person is such a big stinky mound of shit (parang ensaymada ng kalabaw sa bukid) that no good person deserves it.
kala mo naman my BQ... di mo gets? ay sorry minor ka... besides, i won't be excited to see what's behind the pants, it's has been told to all the world... walang surprise di ba?
no one is perfect but we all strive to do good, and that's all that matters. kainin niya ego niya... kaso baka ma-choke siya... sa sobrang haba, laki, at tigas....
huwag kang iiyak diyan, sasampalin kita!!!
ingat.
PS: If anyone needs counseling, ask soul_seeker where to find me... salamat.
oo nga pala soul_seeker,
sabi ko siya huwag kang mag-emote at umiyak-iyak diyan. kahit nasa illinois ka, padadalhan kita ng guwapo at machong mamang FedEx para sampalin. Pati postman mo sasampalin ka rin... itaga mo sa bato... tama na yan.
puwede ba huwag kang manghinayang... may iba dyan na mas mataas at BQ at full of surprises behind the zipper!!! di tulad ng iba, nabulatlat na sa mundo and everything...
PS: Available pa rin ako for counseling, ask soul_seeker where to find me. I also do Tarot card and palm readings... I'm also a pyschic, I know if your partner is seeing someone else. Reasonable rates, flexible schedules. I take Mastercard, Visa, and American Express cards. I don't take personal checks at money orders... cheap niyo ha... later alligayter....
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